Bad credit? No credit? First time buyer? First time baby? No legs? 8 legs? You a spider? Are you a Spider trying to buy a house?
Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
This post makes me highly upset because it’s not true. You can bleed. It might hurt. For multiple reasons that are not simply because the dude doesn’t care about you. Being nervous, general lack of experience, having your hymen stretched. It is a real thing. But neither are a requirement, either. Every body is different and has different things happen. There’s tons of information on what to expect your first time and all include the possibility of blood and why that happens and why some women don’t.
As someone who did experience bleeding after my first time, I can guarantee it was not from lack of lubrication or care.
Stop telling women bullshit. This is not helping them. You’re straight out lying to girls who might not know what to expect. I hate seeing this on my dash because it reminds me how naive people can be and how dangerous this kind of misinformation can be. It’s highly disrespectful to the majority of feminists who want to enlighten people rather than just lying for tumblr notes.